Well, Here is its.. the Big First Anniversary.... Let me tell you this is not the one we expected to have.. First we were going to Cuba, then a staycation in St. Pete due to Zika and now trapped in our house waiting for Hurricane Irma. Yes, we were the Floridians that decided to stay because we truly thought it would miss us. So, since I am stuck in the house awaiting a hurricane I have had time to reflect and wanted to give you some advice/insight.
I love my husband and we have been married happily for a year.. That is what matters.. Not some silly vacation or gift. We have each other and are thankful. We made vows on this day and we have lived by them. Do we argue? Yes, Do we get mad? Yes, do we learn to accept each other the way we are? Yes. That is what is important. Social Media plays a hard trick on people thinking couples never argue and have perfect lives.. I am here to tell you that EVERY couple has arguments.. Not knock out drag down ones but normal ones, that normal couples have. Why? Because that is normal and no matter how hard you try one day you will just wake up pissed out at the world and be a complete crazy person for the day and ya know what? That is NORMAL!!
I wanted to say that because everyone always thinks "perfect" exists and it doesn't.. While I have the perfect marriage for me that doesn't mean that we are always perfect. We love each other through everything no matter what. That was our vow. Always choose love. We have had struggles this year with what we thought something would be an easy process and turns out it has not been for us. We have now embraced the path God chose for us and we know that path will lead us to the right way. I will eventually go in detail about our struggle when the time is right. Right now it just isn't. I have been doing videos during this process and I think a lot of women will relate. I will say this.. My point to this whole thing is nothing is perfect. But my marriage is perfect for me and him. He is perfect for me. I accept him and love him as he does me. These past months he has been my rock and had my back during every decision which I will explain would be hard for some men to do and Logan has been a champ. I hope you all love these videos. I am also sending the link and passcode to watch our whole video for the ceremony in case you are bored lol.
This was the best day of my life and I love looking back and seeing everything from the way he looked to his smile, to his words and the way he said them. Today, I am thankful my dear, sweet husband. You make me proud everyday. You are my rock, and personal comedian and I love you.